Wasn't sure how I was going to accommodate your lanky guy/redhaired girl situation, and then I remembered the Magic Keumungo hacked object I found a little while back. It quashes the jealousy reactions on a lot. Voila! Problem solved!
I have a feeling SimJenna is going to be a very happy, though somewhat sleep deprived, sim. Thanks so much for offering this up for our gaming enjoyment.